The “boomerang kid” phenomenon
My son’s about to graduate from college and wants to move back home to save money. Is this a bad idea?
answer:
Not necessarily. The “boomerang kid” phenomenon is very common. Recent census figures show that about half of 18- to 24-year-olds live with their parent(s), usually for financial reasons. There’s nothing wrong with letting him move home, as long as you, your wife, and he agree that this is a temporary transitional step necessitated by a clear need—and that there’s a defined exit date. Setting boundaries is important: He must work and pay you rent, do chores, and even buy and prepare dinner once or twice a week. He does his own laundry! Also, he must cooperate with your house guidelines regarding curfew, guests, noise, and cleanliness. A return to the days of the extended family living together might actually be good for our society, as long as the living arrangement doesn’t affect the parents’ relationship, comfort, and financial well-being.