Archive for the ‘relationship’ Category
Can women ejaculate?
Settle a bet for me: Can women ejaculate?
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Yes, although it’s far more common in adult films than in real life. Not all women ejaculate during orgasm, and that’s just fine; there’s nothing wrong. Those who do ejaculate expel a clear or milky fluid from the urethra; it is produced by the Skene’s glands. You can try to make your lover ejaculate by stimulating her G-spot, which is located on the front wall of the vagina. This is most easily accomplished in the missionary position if your penis curves upward, or through rear entry if your penis curves downward. There are also a variety of dildos and vibrators on the market that are designed with a built-in curvature to target the G-spot. Or you can just use your fingers. Insert one or two several inches into her vagina and curve them into a “come here” motion while exerting pressure on her clitoris.
Sex life with toys
My wife and I want to spice up our sex life with toys, but we don’t want anything too weird. Any suggestions?
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Sure. Start out simple—with scented lubricants that double as massage oils and a small vibrator such as the Silver Bullet. This one works great for stimulating her clitoris when she’s on top or you’re entering her from behind. And its size won’t be intimidating to her or to you. Feeling more adventurous? Buy your wife a remote-controlled vibrator that she can wear out for dinner and an orgasm. You man the remote! For a toy that penetrates, check out the silicone vibrators made by a company called the Fun Factory (funfactory.de). Add a silicone-based lube to the equation, and you’re in for a mind-blowing night! You may eventually want to round out your toy chest with a popular little pet called the Rabbit Habbit. Small vibrating “rabbit” ears branch off the penis-shaped silicone vibrator for extra stimulation. And there’s nothing floppy about ‘em.
How many women I slept with?
My wife of 5 years suddenly started asking how many women I slept with before her. How should I navigate this question?
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So, how many did you sleep with, mister? Huh? Never mind. Look, curiosity about a partner’s former lovers is natural, but it’s natural at the beginning of a relationship. After 5 years of marriage? Hmmm. It sounds to me like your wife needs some reassurance about the strength of your relationship. So do what you can to remove any doubt. I’ll bet that if you make her feel greatly loved, she will stop the prying. If she asks again, I recommend you blow it off with a joke like “Do my years as a gigolo count? What about my semester in Amsterdam?” Or just throw out the magic number 12—it will cover five or six serious girlfriends, all those wild weekends in college, a couple of one-night stands, and a vacation fling. Then reassure your wife that the only list that matters is the one that begins and ends with her.
Frosty tension between me and my boss
My boss screamed at me, and now there’s a frosty tension between us. Flow can I get things back to normal?
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Being screamed at is never pleasant, and there’s far too much of it in the workplace. If anybody outside of the office yelled at you the way senior officers sometimes do, you’d punch him in the face. But into each career some spit shall fall, and you’re not a wuss. You can take it. Don’t reward the boss’ bullying with craven behavior. Stand tall and get right back on the horse. Try not to take it personally. Very often, the yeller is simply managing his anxiety in the only manner he knows how—by using you as a punching bag. Persistent sadistic treatment, however, calls for a level of Zen detachment mastered only by the sages of the ages. Adopt an indifferent “fuc*it” attitude. If you can’t do it in body, at least do so in spirit. A storm doesn’t seem so bad when you’re flying above it.
Related post:
How to Say the Right Thing
Tragedy, unfortunately, is a given. What to say by way of consolation in times of sickness, death, a cheating spouse, unemployment or plastic surgery gone wrong is not.
Word of wisdom
I remember when your dad … “And then they share a wonderful
memory or story or tell me something about his joie de vivre or some great moment I didn’t know about.”
I’d really like to help with Y “Most people just say, ‘Let me know if you need anything.’ The idea is nice, but get specific when you offer. Then I don’t have to cough it up and make the call.”
I see him in you “I appreciate hearing about a quality of his that we share.”
Are You Looking For A Devil Tattoo Design?
By Derek Cladek
If you are looking for a devil tattoo, does that mean you are a bad person? Usually devil tattoo designs are not the most sought after tattoo because of their reputation. A devil is a representation of a bad person, someone who is evil, unlikable and something that others wish to stay away from. So you can see why many people would want to opt in for an angel tattoo instead. The devil tattoo on the other hand is still an option as a tattoo design. Many people look for this type of tattoo for many reasons and it’s not always about being bad.